Comments on: How do men feel about dating divorced women who have kids?

By: Salacious Crumb

Salacious Crumb — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 09:33:19 +0000

how weird is it to find out he has knocked you up again while you are getting divorced?

that’s just creepy.

anyway, well-mannered clean children = not a problem.

filthy hollering brats = Baybay’s keeds = run like hell

By: Lily_1983

Lily_1983 — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 09:10:33 +0000

I don’t think so.
If a man loves you for whom you are, he would accept you and your kids as a package deal. It might be harder, but it is not impossible. It takes a stronger man who is willing to take on the extra responsibility. You will get what you want eventually, just never settle.

By: Kate

Kate — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 06:30:32 +0000

So not true, I have two kids also! A five year old and a two year old and I’m 27 years old! You’ll be surpised girl, I got so many guys wanting to hook up, it makes me smile to know I’m still wanted! My ex said the exact same thing to me, boy is he eating his own words, I made sure I got into shape later on and took care of myself! Now he’s with an older, fat, ugly,lady with 6 kids! LOL who got the last laugh!! I didn’t do laugh in his face though, his face shows his regret enough when I see him and his sweat pant and t-shirt wearing women!!! LOL he looks misarable!!!! So let your man say what he wants, it’s not true, and someday he will know it! Just tell him” I’d rather be alone, single and happy than to stay with you and be misarble for the rest of my life!”

By: Greg G

Greg G — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 06:10:21 +0000

Obviously an easy score if she’s been knocked up before.

By: sweetroll

sweetroll — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 05:46:59 +0000

You got pregnant/married too soon. I wouldn’t focus on meeting another man for a long time. Focus on raising your kids for the next several years. True – you are not prime dating material and I am not a guy saying so. But if you concentrate on making your life better for you and your kids rather than starting a new relationship – all the better for all of you.

By: Kevin R

Kevin R — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 05:26:11 +0000

He is wrong .

Men will even date pregnant women .

Dating will not be an issue .

By: alialoggi

alialoggi — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 03:55:54 +0000

You can tell him that he wont be able to wine and dine any women when he’s paying child support and alimony, either.

By: maryannmccarthy2003

maryannmccarthy2003 — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 02:52:39 +0000

What your soon to be ex is telling you is untrue. I was in this order divorced once & widowed once with 4 sons, 3 minors and I met and married my current & last hubby 2 years ago this month and he had no issues with me having kids. His kids were 18 & 24 when we married so he had no responsibility to minor kids. My youngest was 6 when we married. Good luck with your future.

Mary in Camden, MI

By: nydp02

nydp02 — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 02:28:07 +0000

That is not true. You will eventually find someone..give yourself some time.

By: HappyHolidays!

HappyHolidays! — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 01:57:37 +0000

There are some men who do not want a package deal. They remind me of the lions that hunt down lion cubs to stop the dna of a competitive male. Then there are the prescious men who are able to love another mans offsprng. this is going to depend on you but you have to remember that they came first. If a man dont want your kids then he looses you. Thats how it has to be now. When you start dating, i advise you not to intro him to your kids. Wait till he is somoene you are thinking about a long term relationship with that way they wont meet a enterogue of different men. Its hard on them. THey get attached then you break up….you know? But hubby is saying that to control and hurt you . Dont listen to him. LIsten to taylor swifts white horse song. go to you tube if you havnent heard it yet.
You will be fine and you wil find love again. You willl be smarter this time. You know better what you want. just dont settle. You will have lonely times or horny times….dont settle.
good luck hon.