May 10th, 2010
Why do young women never attend singles parties or events?
I was going to attend a singles dance today, but I contacted the place where it is being hosted and they said nearly everyone there is over 40 every week! This got me to thinking, online dating, singles dances, dating agencies; why do young women never go to any of these? Don’t they want to meet guys? They pack into malls and clubs and blow off anyone who talks to them. How am I supposed to meet a girl my own age?
May 10th, 2010 at 5:55 pm
its because they’re insecure when they dont have a date
its very normal for all ages like that and we all feel better when we have someone to go with us with, especially if its our boyfriend along. For guys they dont care, as long as they have fun or get laid or maybe even find a new gf.
May 10th, 2010 at 6:02 pm
they’re to emmbaressed to be showing that they’re single and might be scared to meet new guys
May 10th, 2010 at 6:41 pm
get out there
May 10th, 2010 at 9:05 pm
We’re embarrassed to attend those functions, to be frank. It’s easier not to seem too desperate in a club than it is at a single party. And, some of us tend to think only geeks, dorks and losers of all sorts will be at singles parties, so we avoid them.
May 10th, 2010 at 11:00 pm
Because we usually have dates.
Here’s a suggestion. Don’t go to singles events, join a club and go to their activites, or just go to a non-singles event. You will find us there.
May 10th, 2010 at 11:03 pm
Be patient. You will actually meet someone when you least expect it. It in all likely hood will not be in a bar or on a singles web site or whatever. You meet Ms. Right by things like bumping into them in the bank teller line, or while your grocery shopping. It is typically at a time when you are not looking.
May 10th, 2010 at 11:24 pm
I will tell you why they don’t.
Women get it when they want it.
Guys get it when they can.
Women know they just have to walk outside basically and some guy will hit on them so having to go to these desperate meetings are a waste of time. I know I cant leave my house without some guy hitting on me and it sucks.
Guys go becuase they are turned down alot by women because they just approach women all wrong (that is why they are blowed off most of the time.) you need to learn how to approach women, not waste your time at these events.
May 11th, 2010 at 1:02 am
Maybe the girls know there will be only older persons (men) and don’t go there because they – like you – want ot meet people of their own age.
Anyway I think these things are for desperate people and I wonder how many of them really want something serious or just a bit of fun. I’ve never tried any of it and wouldn’t do. I met my partner two months ago in a Dublin pub when there was live music on and we just started talking and having fun. We had met several times before when the singer was playing but that day it all started. I think that’s the best way of meeting someone though for some people online dating or things like that might work. But people can just mess around too much on these things. If you see someone for weeks you start ’scanning’ him/ her and can figure out how the person really is. Then you get to know each other better and eventually become a couple.
May 11th, 2010 at 2:43 am
Single girls travel in packs, thats why they hit up bars and clubs, a “singles dance” is almost demeaning, and showing up alone somewhere seems demeaning to some girls
May 11th, 2010 at 4:39 am
They figure they are in high demand . They don’t need singles meet and greets